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Borderline Personality Disorder

My heart goes out to the guy who wrote in under the above heading. My wife has Histrionic Personality Disorder.

I am 59 and only realised this after sessions with a therapist some years. What a hell my life is.

To others she appears this wonderful, happy, perfect woman. To me and her family can be awe inspiringly bad. As long as she perceives herself in control then all is OK. Otherwise the histrionic portion takes over. And take over it does. Her eyes widen, she loses control  I have been threatened with a pistol and in America once she even tried to swerve the car under a truck.

And what can one do? You cannot point this out to her - she merely attacks you to shift the blame. Try entering Histrionic Personality Disorder in Google and read what the doctors say. The one I went to see summed it up by saying - get divorced. He was not prepared to even try and treat her.

How do I get her to accept what she has? What will make my life worth living again? She continually chases after other men for attention etc etc...

I could go on and on. But that will not stop the problem.

Feeling so Hopeless

E-pos jou donkerste geheim na bieg@litnet.co.za.
E-mail your darkest secret to bieg@litnet.co.za.

boontoe


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